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  • Escaping a negativity spiral: These 10 daily habits will get you out

    Escaping a negativity spiral: These 10 daily habits will get you out

    Anyone can get caught in a negativity spiral from time to time. I know I have, several times. The good news is: You can get out. And the first step is knowing you’re in one. The following piece includes 10 things I learned from being in a deep, dark, negativity spiral, and finding my way out. For more on that very personal story, read this piece about my daily attitude readjustment project and how a positive mind got me out of a hole. And if you’re in one yourself now, I suggest you continue on.

    1. Write every day.

    Consistently putting your thoughts on paper can be therapeutic and calming. Writing allows you to process your emotions and gain perspective on your experiences. Expose your negativity spirals through writing.

    I’ve struggled with letting thoughts swirl and fester in my head, but once I started writing things out, I felt better. Make it a daily habit as best you can, even if you don’t think you have anything to say.

    2. Celebrate your wins.

    Make a habit of acknowledging and writing down your accomplishments, big or small. This helps you recognize your progress and builds your confidence. Negativity spirals are no match for the counter energy of a positivity spiral.

    As an entrepreneur, I’m always pushing myself to do more, be better, but there’s a delicate balance between pushing and patting yourself on the back. Push yourself too hard, and you burn out. It’s no different than exercise: Push yourself too hard, and you’re going to get injured. Reflect on what you learned or did well, every day, big or small. This is another one I find incredibly helpful.

    3. Trust your inner circle.

    Don’t be afraid to share your struggles with true friends and family. They can provide valuable advice, encouragement, and a listening ear when you need it most. You might feel like you’re a burden, but you’re not. Family and true friends will want to be there for you. Speak up. Your inner circle will be great reminder of all the positives around you.

    However, what I wouldn’t do is tell acquaintances or co-workers your problems until they’ve become a part of your inner circle.

    4. Prioritize your holistic fitness.

    Focus on maintaining a balanced routine that includes strength training (3 days/week), cardio (2-3 days/week), meditation or breathwork (5 minutes/day), proper nutrition, and quality sleep. A healthy mind and body go hand in hand. Need a workout plan? Try one of our 35+ free ones. Need help with your nutrition? Read this piece on how to start a diet that works for you and this piece on intuitive eating. Want a great system that pulls all of this together? Read this piece on the perfect day for brain and body performance.

    I’m beyond grateful for my discovery and passion for exercise. It’s been the best thing in the world for me. Which brings me to my next point…

    5. Express gratitude.

    Daily gratitude helps you focus on the positive aspects of your life, even when things are challenging. You’ll be blown away by how quickly this works. Hands down, one of the single best things you can do.

    I learned this in what I would consider one of my lowest career moments. I was mentally beat up and defeated. But you know what? I had my family, my girlfriend, my health, a roof over my head, and the skills and know-how to rebound, and I did. And the moment I began to express more gratitude, the universe returned the love.

    Download the Gratitude Jar app. It’s great!

    6. Connect with nature.

    Go wander in the woods, lay in a park, go swimming in the ocean. Nature has a therapeutic effect on our mental health. Spending time outdoors has been scientifically proven to reduce stress, improve mood, and increase overall well-being. You can’t hole yourself up in your house or apartment. Tap into all of your senses. This world is incredible; let it inspire you.

    7. Be kind to yourself.

    Practice self-compassion and treat yourself with understanding and empathy when facing setbacks or challenges.

    Anyone who says they are happy and motivated all day, every day, is a complete liar. That’s impossible. Even if they seem to have everything in the world going for them, everyone has, will, or is going through something. You’re never alone, so don’t beat yourself up.

    8. Do more of what you love.

    Dedicate time to hobbies or activities that bring you joy and relaxation. These leisure activities can significantly contribute to your mental well-being.

    For me, I’d spend a little more time in the gym and would go surfing and fishing. While I’m a big believer in hard work, discipline, and persistence, everyone needs dedicated time for leisure and passions. I’ve taken plenty of time-outs, but then I get back on the grind again. And you can too.

    9. Get detailed with your goals.

    Break down larger goals into smaller, achievable milestones to maintain motivation and celebrate your progress along the way.

    For me, I was successful early in my professional career because I was very detailed and clear on what I wanted to accomplish. I knew the steps and I knew how long it might take. Later on, during setbacks, I struggled a bit with clarity, but worked on it.

    10. Seek professional help when needed.

    If you’re unable to manage your mental health on your own, don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional for guidance, support, and effective strategies.

    I’ve had therapists and coaches. We all need them, and there’s nothing to be ashamed of.

    If you read this piece from a place of negativity or in a negativity spiral, I hope it’s helped turn your mood around to a more hopeful one. Know this: I’ve been there. Everyone has and everyone will too. It’s a part of life. But you will be on the up again, and I’m rooting for you, whoever you are or wherever you are. I promise you that.

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  • My Daily Attitude Readjustment Project: How A Positive Mind Got Me Out of a Hole

    My Daily Attitude Readjustment Project: How A Positive Mind Got Me Out of a Hole

    I wanted to resurface this deeply personal piece around my daily attitude readjustment project that reflects on my journey of overcoming challenges and embracing a positive mindset. I’ve lightly edited the original article and updated it with additional resources to better support and inspire those seeking to improve their mental well-being. The original version was first published on October 19th, 2019.

    I have a few confessions to make. I’m not always the most positive person, in fact, I admittedly have pessimistic tendencies, but it’s something I work on every day. This must sound strange coming from the creator of a fitness and wellness brand, but it’s true.

    I’ve gone through ups and downs as I grow as a human, but not too long ago, I dug out of one of my deepest holes yet, and it was my attitude that saved me.

    Facing Rejection and Loss

    I had lost my dream job and was devastated. I lost a best friend too. And as all of this was happening a lot of my contacts were no longer there for me either. I was alone and was experiencing the most amount of rejection to date. I was very lucky to have my family, a couple of very tight relationships, and my health, but a lot of other things were completely going in the wrong direction.

    I thought I had peaked out. Hit my prime and everything was downhill from there. I thought my time had come and it had passed me by. That was the cycle of thought that repeated over and over in my head. And things only got worse from there.

    The Impact of Negativity on Health

    I got sick more often, I felt weaker, I didn’t want to work out as much, and when I did, I was killing myself. I got very sad and ended up in a deep, scary depression. I hid it to some extent and kept producing and fighting to be an inspiration that I always wanted to be, but holding a lot of that negative just doesn’t work. Eventually, things reached a new breaking point.

    I can’t quite pinpoint exactly what my wake-up call was, but I started to realize just how negative I was thinking and allowing it to spiral.

    Related: My perfect day for brain and body performance

    Opening Up and Seeking Help

    This was one of the most difficult things for me to write and share openly because I think it makes me sound like a complete hypocrite or fraud. Then I would beat myself up even more because I would think about how I sound like a brat because there are others with far less or are worse off.

    My attitude needed to change on so many levels.

    “While chatting with a friend through some of these issues, he asked me a very interesting question: ‘When you’re meeting with people, what are they picking up from the conversation?’ ‘What do you mean?’ I asked. He said, ‘How are people feeling after meeting you? What sort of vibe are you giving off?’ I don’t know why these particular questions made me stop and think for a minute about how I was interacting with people, but they did.”

    A lot of my internal struggles and negativity were probably showing without me even really knowing it. You can only hide sadness and depression and anger and resentment so much. It comes through in some way or another. It was after that conversation that I started to seriously reassess my attitude and how it was impacting my progress.

    A Life-Changing Book

    “The same friend sent me a book the very next day, ‘Today Matters’ by John Maxwell. Initially, I thought to myself, ‘Oh no, I’m not a self-help guy! I’m the one who helps other people!’ What an ego, right? But the truth is, I needed help.”

    While the book is loaded with ideas on how to be a better leader, one chapter in particular that stuck with me was all about attitude. As I was reading, I had to put the book down and email my friend a thank you as I held back tears. I was moved. Finally! I felt something in my bones that I hadn’t felt in many years. It was the same exact feeling I got when I decided I wanted to work in fitness, and magazines, and media, and content.

    Creating a Daily Attitude Readjustment Project

    I decided to start my own daily attitude readjustment project. Here it is:

    • This is my daily attitude readjustment project
    • My attitude discipline every day will be to read this document every morning.
    • I will forget all of the bad things that happen to me.
    • I will see the positive in all work assignments or projects — no matter how difficult or daunting.
    • I will look for the positive in people and trust more.
    • I will stop using negative words.
    • I will recognize my depressive tendencies and acknowledge things I am grateful for.

    While I obviously am far from perfect and can’t always shake bad or negative thoughts, at least this morning ritual got me off on the right foot. Some mornings were tough, I didn’t want to read it, I didn’t want to believe its power for some reason, but truth be told, almost immediately after putting this into place, I was significantly more productive, was far less depressed, and more and more positive things were happening in my life.

    The Power of Consistency

    I started working more, making more money again, and my workouts were getting back on track. Fast forward and I even derailed from reciting my daily attitude readjustment messages, and sure enough, I noticed I started going negative again. So I started back up, and felt immediately better.

    It’s actually quite unbelievable how a paragraph of words can alter my perspective and as a result start moving in a positive direction again.

    A Suggestion for Everyone

    I highly suggest everyone starts their own daily attitude readjustment project.

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  • Conquering the Confusion: Practical Strategies to Manage Anxiety and Stress

    Conquering the Confusion: Practical Strategies to Manage Anxiety and Stress

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by the weight of anxiety and stress? You’re not alone. These powerful emotions can disrupt your days and leave you frantically searching for relief. Here, we dive straight into practical strategies and insights that can help you manage anxiety and stress. From understanding their triggers to exploring treatment options, learn how to regain control of your well-being.

    This piece is for educational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or manage any illness. If you’re in need of help, contact your doctor immediately.

    Key Takeaways

    • Anxiety disorders are persistent and can significantly interfere with daily activities, manifesting through a variety of physical and psychological symptoms, including dizziness, palpitations, and intense worry, gastrointestinal distress, and more.
    • Stress is a physiological response to challenges and can become chronic, leading to serious health issues like heart disease. Recognizing the signs and triggers of both stress and anxiety is critical for effective management and preventing physical symptoms and mental health conditions.
    • Treatment options for stress and anxiety include medical care and therapy, with cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) being highly effective. Implementing self-help strategies, making lifestyle adjustments, and building social support are essential for managing and preventing excessive anxiety.

    Understanding Anxiety Disorders and Their Impact

    Illustration of a person feeling anxious and overwhelmed

    Anxiety can encompass a state of intense fear and apprehension beyond just the occasional worry. Living with anxiety disorders, which are categorized as mental health conditions, may mean constantly feeling restless, even when there is no cause or reason to feel so, leading it become difficult for those affected by them in everyday life routines. This type of psychological disturbance commonly begins during adolescence but has been known to last into adulthood too. While specific causes remain unknown, stress-inducing events (such as trauma) combined with hereditary aspects could be possible risk factors that contribute towards developing an anxiety disorder such as panic attacks, generalized problems and social anxieties etc. Fortunately, various treatments exist designed specifically to manage these nerve wracking feelings by lessening amounts of hormones created under stressful circumstances within the body.

    Recognizing Anxiety Symptoms

    Recognizing the signs and symptoms of anxiety is a first step towards its successful management. Anxiety can affect not only psychological wellbeing, but also physical health with results such as dizziness, exhaustion, pounding heart rate or irregular heartbeat patterns, muscle tension and aches, trembling or shaking, migraines, etc.

    The psychological side effects may be experienced by feelings of apprehension/unease along with fear that something threatening could occur soon plus an increased pulse rate – all linked to the body’s reaction to stress. An inability for concentration coupled up with worries about negative outcomes arising from certain events ahead are common, as are irrational fears. This state can heavily diminish quality level life.

    When Anxiety Becomes a Disorder

    Stress can trigger anxiety, but when does it become a disorder? Anxiety develops into an illness once the distress is no longer manageable and begins to impair normal life. Think of being so overwhelmed that you struggle doing everyday tasks like going out with friends or working, this signifies the transformation of regular stress into an anxiety problem. Other signs include strong emotionality, physical reactions, and having difficulty functioning normally due to intensity in worries. If such symptoms are persistent, then professional help should be sought for potential development of mental health difficulties related to anxiety. Fortunately, there are useful treatment options available which may bring relief from severe tension or even full-blown anxiety disorders.

    Deciphering Stress: The Body’s Reaction to Pressure

    Stress can hold you back

    Stress is an often-used term to express the feeling of having too much going on, but it’s actually a physical reaction in response to challenges. This could be anything from tough and demanding job, responsibilities and taking tests, all the way down to even driving around town quickly. Although sometimes stress can benefit us by pushing our productivity levels, over time this accumulated strain may result in mental health issues such as exhaustion or sleep disorder. Ignore for long enough and depression along with more serious medical conditions like heart disease can develop. If you have recently been experiencing headaches or disturbances while sleeping paired with constant fatigue, these are probably signs that your body has had enough pressure put upon it through excessive and prolonged forms of stress so try for better results by reducing them.

    Identifying Chronic Stress Signs

    The term chronic stress is used to describe a state of ongoing, long-term tension. This type of pressure causes symptoms such as fatigue, headaches and difficulty sleeping – much like being stuck in an eternal traffic jam when you’re running late for something important. Being exposed to this kind of strain can have grave consequences on our health which include disturbances with the immune system, disruption within our digestive processes or effects hindering growth and reproduction functions, even leading to brain atrophy over time. That’s why recognizing signs indicating high levels of stress is vital so that it may be addressed before causing damage down the line.

    Stress Triggers vs. Anxiety Triggers

    Managing stress and anxiety successfully requires recognizing what triggers them. Stress is usually caused by outside pressures, like the death of someone close to you, divorce, joblessness or having a tight timeline at work/in your life. Anxiety can be internal in origin with no external reason – for example feeling nervous or scared about an unseen health issue or something which might not even take place but still creates uneasiness leading to certain physical sensations such as chest pain, difficulty breathing heavily, dizziness, rapid heart rate, tremors, sweating, etc. Both types cause unpleasant symptoms so it’s important to understand their origins that help in better management.

    The Interplay Between Stress and Anxiety

    Illustration of the interplay between stress and anxiety

    Stress and anxiety are closely connected, in that when one is present it can lead to the other. In its simplest form, stress would be an immediate response to a threat, while anxiety can develop from this due to prolonged periods of distress. For example, if someone has been anxious about giving a presentation at work, they may continue feeling uneasy even after delivering their speech. Something known as chronic stress which has potential implications on overall health including increased risk for developing mental disorders such as anxiety. Common symptoms experienced by those stressed or suffering with mild forms of worry include elevated heart rate, sweating and jitteriness, signs illustrating both conditions need a unified approach for treatment.

    How Stress Can Trigger Anxiety

    When it comes to anxiety disorders, understanding the relationship between stress and anxiety is vital. Stress activates both the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis and sympathetic adrenal medullary (SAM) axis, which triggers a person’s flight or fight response leading to feelings of fear and worry – consequently causing high levels of tension known as ‘anxiety’. Acute episodes that cause extreme distress can induce symptoms such as deep apprehension, feeling powerless coupled with recurring memories from traumatic events while experiencing an emotional disconnection in one’s dreams. This association between the stress response and its resulting effect on mental health should be recognized for successful management against any form of associated anxieties.

    The Flight Response in Both Stress and Anxiety

    When it comes to stress and anxiety, the flight response is the body’s natural way of protecting itself from any potential danger. This causes a rush in adrenaline which activates the sympathetic nervous system leading to physical symptoms such as increased heart rate and breathing due to an excretion of stress hormones.

    While these two states may evoke this same reaction, they are not identical. Worry over general threats might form anxieties associated with stressful events even when there isn’t real immediate risk – unlike conventional stresses reacting quickly like dodging oncoming cars – making clear how important it is for us to recognize between them correctly.

    Navigating Treatment Options

    Small groups can help with stress and anxiety

    For individuals who are dealing with stress and anxiety, there is hope that these conditions can be managed. Medical care can be utilized to address specific symptoms and any underlying physical issues or illnesses associated with them. As well, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has proven very effective in treating mental health related problems by helping people alter their negative thinking patterns and behaviors. With such options available for managing the impact of stress and anxiety on daily life, it’s possible to lead a calmer existence once again.

    Role of Therapy in Managing Stress and Anxiety

    Stress and anxiety can be difficult to overcome, but therapy provides the roadmap to help those struggling find their way back. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly beneficial for managing these conditions by assessing situations that cause stress, working on altering unhelpful thoughts or patterns of behavior, and breaking out of negative thought cycles. With CBT’s array of tools at your disposal, you are better equipped than ever before to take control over your life again when dealing with these tough emotions. In essence, it gives us a compass so we don’t get lost in our troubles any longer. This allows individuals the guidance they need create calmness even during times filled with emotional turbulence.

    Self-Help Strategies for Everyday Life

    practice mindfulness everyday

    Stress and anxiety can be effectively managed in daily life by incorporating self-help strategies such as physical activity, relaxation exercises, time management, and engaging in hobbies. Through implementing these techniques into one’s lifestyle, it is possible to reduce stress levels significantly, preventing excessive anxiety. Physical exercise offers great benefits when tackling stress. Not only does it lower the hormones associated with tension, but also boosts overall mood whilst adding an extra element of routine into your day-to-day activities. Consequently, this enables a positive change towards managing stress and anxiety successfully within everyday living situations.

    Incorporating Physical Activity and Adequate Sleep

    To reduce stress and manage anxiety, physical activity has been proven to be highly effective. Moderate activities such as running, cycling, yoga or strength training can help lower cortisol levels while increasing endorphins production at the same time. This is like a natural remedy for tension reduction in your body and mind. Check out our 35+ free workout plans for different goals and ability levels and start managing stress and anxiety.

    Similarly, having good quality sleep of about 7 to 8 hours on an everyday schedule could assist with controlling stressful emotions as well. Obtaining sufficient rest may enable our bodies to recover along with regulating hormones related to distress. It bolsters cognitive functioning as well as replenishing energy reserves, just think of this process as resetting yourself both physically and mentally every single day. To improve your sleep, try these 10 proven-techniques.

    Practicing Mindfulness and Breathing Exercises

    Mindfulness and breathing exercises are great self-help strategies for managing stress and reducing anxiety symptoms. Practicing mindfulness promotes focusing on the present moment without judgement, which in turn decreases both stress levels and anxiety. This technique lets us take a break from all of life’s chaos while still finding inner peace.

    Breathing techniques have proven to be beneficial for controlling fears as they can remind our brains about relaxation, activating the parasympathetic nervous system thus lowering fear indicators even further. These simple practices could come in handy whenever you find yourself feeling overwhelmed by things out of your control or surrounded by stressful feelings. It is an effective way to let go of what’s causing these discomforts at any time or place possible. To start a mindfulness practice, check out our guide to breathwork.

    Lifestyle Adjustments to Prevent Excessive Anxiety

    Making positive lifestyle changes is an effective approach to limiting levels of stress and anxiety. This includes exercising regularly, having a nutritious diet and getting enough sleep. Choosing actions which promote your wellbeing can aid in managing both tension and worry better.

    Relaxation techniques like time management activities or hobbies are key strategies for reducing strain while preventing unnecessary anxiety too – they’re not one-time solutions but long term adjustments which will help manage pressure plus unease over the course of time.

    Building Resilience Through Social Support

    Social support plays a pivotal role in creating resilience, and dealing with stress and anxiety. It forms an effective barrier to tackle negative occurrences by providing:

    • the possibility of building stronger relationships;
    • feelings of community involvement;
    • appropriate means for facing difficult times without falling into despair or depression ;

    And, lessening tension associated with mental health concerns. Having someone around as emotional back up while tackling adversity makes it easier to get through anything that comes your way. To construct this kind of reliable net, take part in activities like group workouts and/or group runs, engaging in worthwhile projects along others who share similar interests, and staying away from destructive interactions. These steps taken together form foundation blocks towards having powerful supporters during stressful phases improving psychological wellbeing significantly. For more mental health support, check out the journal on fearfulgiant.com.

    Creating a Balanced Life to Manage Stress

    Living a life of balance, with the right combination of eating well, exercising regularly and keeping an eye on personal needs, can have a big impact in terms of reducing stress. This means striking a balance between work and rest as well as times to be socially active versus solitary pursuits. It enables you to cope better with anxiety and gives them the tools they need to stay healthy mentally.

    In order for this balanced lifestyle approach to work effectively, it is necessary not only look at what you should do, but also consider what one should avoid such as drinking too much alcohol or smoking cigarettes. Both contribute towards one another. Stressing out your mental health is best avoided if possible when trying to handle difficult feelings and emotions responsibly alongside guidance from professionals who specialize in such matters. Staying off screens excessively helps alleviate pressure, which allows us to enjoy our lives more fully, something that contributes hugely towards overall wellbeing. Start optimizing your life, take a look at what a perfect day for brain & body performance looks like.

    A Long-Term Fight Against Stress and Anxiety

    Stress and anxiety can be hard to manage without the proper knowledge, but with the right approach one can learn how to navigate their way through. Knowing about anxiety effects, being aware of symptoms that come from chronic stress, understanding why these two are interconnected and looking into possible treatments as well as lifestyle changes all play a role in helping make them more manageable parts of life rather than insurmountable issues. In essence, it’s not about completely eliminating stress or anxiety from our lives but learning how we can deal better when faced with them so we may lead balanced and fulfilling lives.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    How is stress related to anxiety?

    Stress is an exertion made on the mind or body, while anxiety refers to a unique reaction in response to stress – marked by long-term uneasiness and fear. Even after the cause of worry has gone away, signs of generalized anxiety disorder can still remain present.

    How to calm down anxiety?

    For those dealing with anxiety, certain calming activities can help reduce stress and strengthen emotional strength. Diaphragmatic breathing, simple stretching exercises, positive self-talk or guided imagery are all useful techniques to create a more relaxed state. Music therapy and taking the time to immerse yourself in nature can also be beneficial for soothing your mind. As well as guided meditations which deepen relaxation levels. All of these measures will make it easier to manage anxious feelings better by promoting peace within oneself.

    What are 4 signs of stress and anxiety?

    Stress and anxiety can have an array of signs such as digestive issues, tension in the muscles, trouble sleeping or concentrating and a bad temper. If these manifestations go unchecked, they may even lead to a panic disorder or attacks brought on by said stress or anxiety.

    How can I stop stress and anxiety?

    In order to decrease stress and anxiety, it is important to prioritize exercise, cut out bad habits like drinking alcohol or smoking tobacco, as well as doing relaxation exercises. It’s good practice for one’s mental health to obtain enough sleep on a regular basis, maintain a nutritious diet plan, and be surrounded by supportive individuals.

    At what point does anxiety become a disorder?

    When social anxiety first reaches a point where it negatively impacts one’s daily life, the need for professional support to address its accompanying symptoms becomes necessary. If left unmanaged, this form of anxiety can develop into an overall disorder.

  • How I got over my fear of the gym

    How I got over my fear of the gym

    Everyone is talking about resolutions, working out, and eating right. It’s that time of year. But what you won’t hear about is a fear of the gym. For the longest time when I had first started, I was afraid of the gym. If you’re a complete beginner, you probably know exactly what I’m talking about.

    “Where do I start?”

    “Where is all the equipment?”

    “Am I going to get in someone’s way?”

    “Am I going to look like a complete idiot?”

    Those were just some of the actual things I had racing through my head. It didn’t matter if it was solo or with friends. I was just so uncomfortable and felt out of place.

    Now, maybe that’s all just me, but if you clicked on this link it says that you might have some hesitations and concerns yourself. I’m here to tell you that it’s completely normal and OK to feel that way. You’ve just got to get in the groove.

    I thought long and hard about those days imaging a barbell come crashing down on me with weights spilling all over the floor. Luckily, that never happened, but it’s terrifying to think about.

    Hopefully these 10 tips will help you with getting over the fear like l did so you can get down to business.

    1. Find the right place for you

    If you’re going to be spending an hour per day in a place, you better be sure you like it. Take a day to check a few places out and talk to the owners. Feel them out. The people that manage or own the place really set the tone. If possible, go at peak hours (before work, lunch, immediately after work). This will allow you to see how busy the place actually gets. I went to four gyms in one day. Really put some consideration into their approach as well. Do you want group fitness classes? Do you like the idea of small group fitness? Mom and pop shop? Chain facility? They’ve all got very unique feels.

    2. Don’t be afraid to ask questions

    There was a guy named Greg at one of the first gyms I joined. I didn’t know him well, but he kept in good shape and taught fitness courses at the college. Every once in a while I’d ask a couple questions. I soaked in as much information as I could. I recommend finding your own Greg.

    3. Train during off-peak hours

    While it might be a good idea to scope our your new potential gym during peak hours, it might not be the best idea when actually starting out. Those peak hours such as before work, lunch break, and post-work can be mayhem. And while your schedule may not allow for it in the long run, try and go at odd hours when the crowds are thinner in the beginning. It will be less overwhelming. Plus, that’s when most of the real hardcore-not-about-the-scene guys go so maybe you can learn some stuff from them.

    4. Find your spot

    To this day I’ll find myself in super-crowded gyms where I’m unfamiliar with the space and people. If you have a chest and back day planned that requires you to be all over the place, just slow down for a few minutes. Find a spot and do some push ups, planks, foam roll, etc. Take your time and feel it all out. Plus, you should be warming up anyway!

    5. Pick a solid beginner plan

    You’ve got to have a plan. Failing to plan is planning to fail. You 100% need a mission for everyday in the gym. After you’ve chosen one, learn and watch closely how to do each move. Got questions? Ask them! I personally like the Foundation workout plan for beginners. (Or the 4-week Very Beginner workout plan for very beginners).

    From there you can progress onto something like The 6-week Redemption workout plan, or the The 6-week Reconstruction plan. Still not finding what you’re looking for? Check out all 30+ FREE workout plans here.

    6. Watch videos that get you fired up

    When first starting out there was a period of time that for 10 or 20 minutes before I planned on going to the gym I would watch inspiring videos to get me excited. Guys just killing it with some cool beat in the background. Majority of this battle is mental and that was a big part of getting me riled. (I remind myself of that every day. In fact, I made sure to have those types of videos created for EVERY workout program we launch. That way you can get as stoked as I did.) I suggest watching all of these: The Holiday ScheduleThe DetoxBuilt for the Beach, and Redemption.

    7. Build your most epic of all epic playlists

    A great workout playlist is clutch. Similar to the inspiring videos, this is clearly a given. I suggest making a few different playlists based on the different genres you like. Don’t listen to your party or chill music. Listen to your, “I’m going to beat the living hell out of the gym today” music. I personally have a several different ones lined up for lifting days, running days, and yoga days.

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    8. Invest in new training gear

    You don’t need to go nuts, but the gear you wear just becomes a part of the whole process. There’s nothing wrong with making it a little special. Doesn’t matter what it is, this is your world, get set up the way you want to.

    9. Crush it with a friend

    If you really think you can’t do it on your own just yet, that’s cool. A good training partner when first starting out makes things 100x easier. You’ve got someone to get through the grueling sets and reps with, but it can also help with getting acclimated to the social scene. (Yeah, there’s probably a scene of some sort at your gym.) Also: make sure it’s someone that’s down to really make it happen. A crappy training partner can kill you—and your plan. Check out this 3-day strength-building plan we produced for training partners with brothers Ryan and Eric Johnson.

    10. Remind yourself every day why you’re doing this

    There were plenty of days I didn’t want to go to the gym (and there still are). But the most important thing to remember is that with every single day you step foot in the place, you’re getting better. A 1 mile run is better than a no mile run. Three sets of 10 of one exercise is better than no sets of 10. Go at your own pace, the more you do it, the more you love it. But never, ever forget to continuously remind yourself why you’re doing it.

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